Getting things done

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It is hard work to sell a house and the hardest part is keeping it clean for photos for the internet, open houses and inspections. I feel I am in constant cleaning mode and bark at the kids if they get one thing out of place or tip all the books out of the bookshelf like Meg did yesterday.

So had an obstetrician appt today and I have Placenta Previa which means that the placenta is low and potentially in the way of the cervix which means that a natural delivery might not be possible. Usually the placenta moves as the baby grows, so I have to have further ultrasounds to make sure that it is out of the way. The incidence increases with each pregnancy apparently. Apart form that, my little girl is doing well and developing in a very healthy manner.

Off to mum’s for dinner tonight – she is trying to help me keep the place clean and so getting the kids out of the way for the evening is just the thing. The house might just stay reasonably tidy till tomorrow for the pics.

I’ll get onto that tag soon Moi – thanks for that!!


Sticky fingers

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Today I was outside with the girls saying goodbye to my sister who bought over a delicious monring tea (thanks Lisa!) when Jess took herslf back inside and locked the door. I was knocking and trying to coax her over to open the door when I noticed through the window that she had stuck her hands in the paint palette that Meg had been using earlier.

Yikes – not paint on my about-to-sold walls and carpet! I raced around to the back door, which by the way was hard to do in my slippers, and grabbed her before too much damage had been done. The next thing I know, I turn my back for a second and she has a green texta and is drawing on the wall 🙁

They say that selling your home is the second most traumatic thing in your life, after the death of a partner. I’m thinking they are probably right!

Have a great weekend one and all.


today

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The shock has worn off and I’m reflecting on my reaction to the ultrasound yesterday. I sobbed so much I couldn’t talk. Part of me was overjoyed at the prospect of a girl and part of me was disappointed that I’ll never experience a baby boy – because let’s face it, I’ve had enough pregnancies and don’t want anymore!!!

A couple of things scare me – that Justin is disappointed about a girl when he really wanted a boy; that people will say “oh dear, how are you going to cope with 4 girls in your house” and that others will be sad for me because the elusive boy offspring has not materialised. I have to admit that I feel this little girl will make my family complete and perfectly balanced; and how can I resist the urge to think that I’ll have 4 of my best friends with me until I grow old, taking care of me, providing me with lots of granchildren and mothering Justin and I into our elderly years.

Justin’s reaction to the news was full of relief that we have bought this new house. With all the potential girlfriends and boyfriends that 4 daughters will bring home, we’ll need a lot of space!

And now the quest for a name has begun. Any suggestions????


Ultrasound Results are in. It’s a……..

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GIRL!

Four daughters. Who would have imagined? Wow. I still can’t believe it.

I think I need to lie down 🙂 I also think that I must be one of the luckiest people in the whole world. I got my dream home and I will have another beautiful daughter soon. A daughter who will have 3 doting big sisters, a daughter who will make me smile and call me Mummy and a daughter who will be my friend for the rest of my life.

Yes I think I am the luckiest person around.


Paperwork

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And now the paperwork has begun- loan applications, solicitors need info, agents need info it just never seems to end. Good news is that the loan is set to be approved – phew. In all the whirlwind of the past few days, I haven’t really had time to sit and celebrate our good fortune at finding a home. I had tears in my eyes as I read the following story, sent to me by my friend Jodie, and it made me take stock of the important things in my life. I wanted to share it here.

A little girl had been shopping with her Mum in Target. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under the awning and just inside the door of the Target.

We waited, some patiently, others irritated because nature messed up their hurried day. I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I got lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of the world. Memories of running, splashing so carefree as a child came pouring in as a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day.

The little voice was so sweet as it broke the hypnotic trance we were all caught in, “Mum, let’s run through the rain,” she said.

“What?” Mum asked.

“Let’s run through the rain!” She repeated.

“No, honey. We’ll wait until it slows down a bit,” Mum replied.

This young child waited about another minute and repeated, “Mom, let’s run through the rain.”

“We’ll get soaked if we do,” Mum said.

“No, we won’t, Mum. That’s not what you said this morning,” the young girl said as she tugged at her Mum’s arm.

“This morning? When did I say we could run through the rain and not get wet?”

“Don’t you remember? When you were talking to Daddy about his cancer, you said, ‘If God can get us through this, he can get us through anything!'”

The entire crowd stopped dead silent. I swear you couldn’t hear anything but the rain. We all stood silently. No one came or left in the next few minutes.

Mum paused and thought for a moment about what she would say. Now some would laugh it off and scold her for being silly. Some might even ignore what was said. But this was a moment of affirmation in a young child’s life. A time when innocent trust can be nurtured so that it will bloom into faith.

“Honey, you are absolutely right. Let’s run through the rain. If God let’s us get wet, well maybe we just needed washing,” Mum said.

Then off they ran. We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and yes, through the puddles. They held their shopping bags over their heads just in case. They got soaked. But they were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars.

And yes, I did. I ran. I got wet. I needed washing.

Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, and they can take away your health. But no one can ever take away your precious memories… So, don’t forget to make time and take opportunities to make memories everyday. To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under heaven.


I HOPE YOU STILL TAKE THE TIME TO RUN THROUGH THE RAIN.

Have a great day 🙂


We got a house!!!! :)

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Our offer has been accepted 🙂 We made it on Saturday and it was Sunday that we got the good news. A sleepness night and very nervous belly was had by all.

So the house is not the one I described last time, but a different one altogether! Main points about the place
– 5 big bedrooms
– 3 bathrooms
– spa in ensuite
– inground, indoor pool
– sauna
– big kitchen
– dining room/scrapping/craft room (happy happy joy joy!)
– very large rumpus room (which has an area that is raised like a stage – the girls are in their entertainment element).

It needs a paint inside and new carpet, but other than that is quite livable. I am sooooooo excited and relieved. Now we have to get the finance sorted out and actually get this place on the market. Let the games begin!

More later!!


More house looking on the weekend

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Just a quick update…just haven’t had time today to do much!

Looking at 2 more houses tomorrow to get a comparison on the one we like. I’m sure one of them will be the right one for us.

Rach and the kids came over today. Holly asked me if Rach was short for “Rachess” like me being Fran that is short for Frances. Love her new short haircut, it suits her so much and I could tell that she feels better just by it being a cute cut.

OK, dinner is burning. Better dash…………………….


I’m so nervous…

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We are taking a second look at a house today. We first saw this place on Saturday and I loved it immediately and Justin did too. Getting Justin to like what I like has been a huge battle and with this one, we both just knew it was great. It is only 2 minutes up the road, so we can stay at the same school and be in the same community which is a relief.

So the house….it has 4 bedrooms (3 really big ones and one regular size one), a study, a rumpus room with ensuite and spa, main bedroom with ensuite, a dining room (aka scrapbooking room) and a great big block with no grass – just paving, decking around the pool and masses of ground covering plants. French doors lead out from the rumpus room to one of 2 entertaining areas. It is really great. The kitchen is blue, and newish, but it would need an update in due course. The 3 bathrooms are all decent, not a brown scanky 1970’s tile in site. It is the kind of place that wouldn’t need anything done to it immediately, and that is very appealing considering I will be busy with new baby in a few months time.

So fingers crossed that this is the one. We just have to negotiate the price – I don’t want to be anywhere near that conversation, I’ll leave that up to Justin.

The family party on Sunday went well. I had to give a speech and while I was very nervous I think I actually did a good job of it. Met the new boyfriend and Holly was horrified at the “pin in his tongue”, but he was a really nice guy and my sister is obviously very taken with him, so that is all the verification that I need. At one point we were having family photos and he was in it. Mum said “Just stand on the side, so in case it doesn’t work out with Kate we can chop you out of the photo”. Oh dear!!!!! He took it all in good jest, thank goodness. 210 This is everyone (minus my 2 nephews – one was asleep and one was hiding). 3 more babies on the way in the next 6 months. 18 people all up now – we will need one of those panoramic photos at Christmas with all the newies in it too.
213 And this photo is of my sisters and I. I don’t think we look alike at all 😉

I recently had a comment on my blog from a friend from uni that I haven’t seen in over 10 years. She found it by chance. Isn’t that a spin out. So now she has had a catch up on my life and I’m sure she was sitting there thinking what the hell is on the water here with all these babies that I am having!! Gotta love the blog 🙂 Thanks for stopping by Caz. Can’t wait to catch up with you a bit more.

OK that is enough for today. Have a great ANZAC Day and I’ll be sure to blog again if this house is THE ONE.


New Mobile phone!!!

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Ok so I resisted to urge to be put off by all the plan possibilities, and went with a prepaid Virgin. In the end Justin got the new phone, and I got his hand-me-down! I hardly use it, so I guess it doesn’t matter that I am not up with the very latest and look at tad daggy 🙁 Please don’t judge me by my mobile!!!!

I looked at my calendar today and the quote was “To have good friends, you have to be one first” – good point, but geez it is hard isn’t it? Keeping up with phone calls and visits and birthdays and anniversarys and blog commenting is a full time job 🙂

More house hunting this weekend. And on Sunday we are having a huge party at my parents to celebrate 3 events – My Dad’s 60th birthday; The arrival of my nephew Jacob and the departure of my sister on a long holiday on the Trans Mongolian Railway (and to also have a squiz at her new boyfriend 😉 ) We are most excited about the squiz at the new boyfriend – Justin asked me how much we were allowed to interrogate and hassle him. I think Jus just wants to get back all the inquistions that were imposed on him when he first arrived on the scene 15 years ago.

So have a great weekend one and all.


Too many choices

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I saw ‘Catalyst” on the ABC last week and there was a segmant on an experiment that a Uni Professor had undertaken to determine why so many of his “well off” students failed to get a job at the end of their studies. Why did so many of them, who had all the opportunites in life, end up working at Starbucks?

The experiment was set up so that they had 24 different types of jams for tasting and for sale. Lots of people tasted, but hardly anyone bought any. When they reduced the number of jam samples to 6, they had the same number of people tasting, but sold much more jam. The concluded that in the first scenario there were too many choices and the brain doesn’t like the high proprtion of risk assocaiated with failure. Choosing 1 jam to buy would mean chancing faliure 23 times and that is too much for us. In the second scenario, with only 6 jams, the chance of failure is only 5 out of 6, and that is more acceptable odds for us to deal with.

I had a light bulb moment!! I hate making decisions when there are so many choices, because I hate the thought of not making the right one and thus facing the ridicule. For example – I never go the the video store to choose a DVD. I loathe standing in front of all the releases and having to make a choice. I would much rather someone else make that decision. I am freaking out about buying a house (we have to move with number 4’s imminant arrival) because what if we choose one and a better one comes on the market a week later. I desperately need a new mobile phone, but the number of plan choices is so overwhelming that I am just sticking with this portable brick because it is easier to do that than make a wrong choice.

I never realised that this was my problem until it was demonstrated on this show. Thank goodness I am not the only one!!!!

On a brighter note, School holidays are here and it is so nice not to have to dash off in the morning for school. Holly has a friend over today and I have not seen them since she arrived. Ahhhhhhh – the serenity!!

Hope everyone had a great Easter – I only ate 2 tiny eggs the whole weekend!