Getting things done

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It is hard work to sell a house and the hardest part is keeping it clean for photos for the internet, open houses and inspections. I feel I am in constant cleaning mode and bark at the kids if they get one thing out of place or tip all the books out of the bookshelf like Meg did yesterday.

So had an obstetrician appt today and I have Placenta Previa which means that the placenta is low and potentially in the way of the cervix which means that a natural delivery might not be possible. Usually the placenta moves as the baby grows, so I have to have further ultrasounds to make sure that it is out of the way. The incidence increases with each pregnancy apparently. Apart form that, my little girl is doing well and developing in a very healthy manner.

Off to mum’s for dinner tonight – she is trying to help me keep the place clean and so getting the kids out of the way for the evening is just the thing. The house might just stay reasonably tidy till tomorrow for the pics.

I’ll get onto that tag soon Moi – thanks for that!!


Sticky fingers

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Today I was outside with the girls saying goodbye to my sister who bought over a delicious monring tea (thanks Lisa!) when Jess took herslf back inside and locked the door. I was knocking and trying to coax her over to open the door when I noticed through the window that she had stuck her hands in the paint palette that Meg had been using earlier.

Yikes – not paint on my about-to-sold walls and carpet! I raced around to the back door, which by the way was hard to do in my slippers, and grabbed her before too much damage had been done. The next thing I know, I turn my back for a second and she has a green texta and is drawing on the wall 🙁

They say that selling your home is the second most traumatic thing in your life, after the death of a partner. I’m thinking they are probably right!

Have a great weekend one and all.


today

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The shock has worn off and I’m reflecting on my reaction to the ultrasound yesterday. I sobbed so much I couldn’t talk. Part of me was overjoyed at the prospect of a girl and part of me was disappointed that I’ll never experience a baby boy – because let’s face it, I’ve had enough pregnancies and don’t want anymore!!!

A couple of things scare me – that Justin is disappointed about a girl when he really wanted a boy; that people will say “oh dear, how are you going to cope with 4 girls in your house” and that others will be sad for me because the elusive boy offspring has not materialised. I have to admit that I feel this little girl will make my family complete and perfectly balanced; and how can I resist the urge to think that I’ll have 4 of my best friends with me until I grow old, taking care of me, providing me with lots of granchildren and mothering Justin and I into our elderly years.

Justin’s reaction to the news was full of relief that we have bought this new house. With all the potential girlfriends and boyfriends that 4 daughters will bring home, we’ll need a lot of space!

And now the quest for a name has begun. Any suggestions????


Ultrasound Results are in. It’s a……..

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GIRL!

Four daughters. Who would have imagined? Wow. I still can’t believe it.

I think I need to lie down 🙂 I also think that I must be one of the luckiest people in the whole world. I got my dream home and I will have another beautiful daughter soon. A daughter who will have 3 doting big sisters, a daughter who will make me smile and call me Mummy and a daughter who will be my friend for the rest of my life.

Yes I think I am the luckiest person around.


Paperwork

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And now the paperwork has begun- loan applications, solicitors need info, agents need info it just never seems to end. Good news is that the loan is set to be approved – phew. In all the whirlwind of the past few days, I haven’t really had time to sit and celebrate our good fortune at finding a home. I had tears in my eyes as I read the following story, sent to me by my friend Jodie, and it made me take stock of the important things in my life. I wanted to share it here.

A little girl had been shopping with her Mum in Target. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under the awning and just inside the door of the Target.

We waited, some patiently, others irritated because nature messed up their hurried day. I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I got lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of the world. Memories of running, splashing so carefree as a child came pouring in as a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day.

The little voice was so sweet as it broke the hypnotic trance we were all caught in, “Mum, let’s run through the rain,” she said.

“What?” Mum asked.

“Let’s run through the rain!” She repeated.

“No, honey. We’ll wait until it slows down a bit,” Mum replied.

This young child waited about another minute and repeated, “Mom, let’s run through the rain.”

“We’ll get soaked if we do,” Mum said.

“No, we won’t, Mum. That’s not what you said this morning,” the young girl said as she tugged at her Mum’s arm.

“This morning? When did I say we could run through the rain and not get wet?”

“Don’t you remember? When you were talking to Daddy about his cancer, you said, ‘If God can get us through this, he can get us through anything!'”

The entire crowd stopped dead silent. I swear you couldn’t hear anything but the rain. We all stood silently. No one came or left in the next few minutes.

Mum paused and thought for a moment about what she would say. Now some would laugh it off and scold her for being silly. Some might even ignore what was said. But this was a moment of affirmation in a young child’s life. A time when innocent trust can be nurtured so that it will bloom into faith.

“Honey, you are absolutely right. Let’s run through the rain. If God let’s us get wet, well maybe we just needed washing,” Mum said.

Then off they ran. We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and yes, through the puddles. They held their shopping bags over their heads just in case. They got soaked. But they were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars.

And yes, I did. I ran. I got wet. I needed washing.

Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, and they can take away your health. But no one can ever take away your precious memories… So, don’t forget to make time and take opportunities to make memories everyday. To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under heaven.


I HOPE YOU STILL TAKE THE TIME TO RUN THROUGH THE RAIN.

Have a great day 🙂


We got a house!!!! :)

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Our offer has been accepted 🙂 We made it on Saturday and it was Sunday that we got the good news. A sleepness night and very nervous belly was had by all.

So the house is not the one I described last time, but a different one altogether! Main points about the place
– 5 big bedrooms
– 3 bathrooms
– spa in ensuite
– inground, indoor pool
– sauna
– big kitchen
– dining room/scrapping/craft room (happy happy joy joy!)
– very large rumpus room (which has an area that is raised like a stage – the girls are in their entertainment element).

It needs a paint inside and new carpet, but other than that is quite livable. I am sooooooo excited and relieved. Now we have to get the finance sorted out and actually get this place on the market. Let the games begin!

More later!!